{"id":2796,"date":"2024-09-24T11:22:21","date_gmt":"2024-09-24T09:22:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vivreaveclesecrans.actioninnocence.org\/?page_id=2796"},"modified":"2024-10-10T16:43:47","modified_gmt":"2024-10-10T14:43:47","slug":"takimet-e-keqija-ne-linje-grooming","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/vivreaveclesecrans.actioninnocence.org\/sq\/te-jetosh-me-ekrane\/takimet-e-keqija-ne-linje-grooming\/","title":{"rendered":"Takimet e k\u00ebqija n\u00eb linj\u00eb (grooming)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb grooming?<\/em><\/h3>\n

Hyrja n\u00eb kontakt dhe k\u00ebrkimi i vendosjes s\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje me f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe adoleshent\u00b7\u00eb\u00b7e q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb arritur pjekurin\u00eb seksuale 16 vje\u00e7 me synim p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur nj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi seksuale ose p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me karakter seksual.<\/p>\n

Si ndodh takimi?<\/h3>\n

N\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve, nj\u00eb individ p\u00ebrpiqet fillimisht t\u00eb kontaktoj\u00eb me nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet sh\u00ebrbimit n\u00eb linj\u00eb. Ai mund t\u00eb filloj\u00eb p\u00ebr shembull me nj\u00eb diskutim n\u00eb nj\u00eb rrjet social, nj\u00eb forum ose nj\u00eb platform\u00eb video-loj\u00ebrash n\u00eb internet, duke ruajtur identitetin e tij ose duke pretenduar se \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb person n\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

Nd\u00ebrtimi i besimit:<\/h3>\n

Personi mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie besimi me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

Ai\/ajo mundet p\u00ebr shembull:<\/p>\n

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  • T\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb pyetje rreth temave q\u00eb i interesojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs<\/li>\n
  • T\u00eb zhvilloj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien rreth interesave t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta<\/li>\n
  • T\u00eb pyes\u00eb gradualisht f\u00ebmij\u00ebn se si ai\/ajo ndihet, p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb dij\u00eb n\u00ebse ai\/ajo ka v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi n\u00eb miq\u00ebsit\u00eb e tij ose n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e tij\/saj me prind\u00ebrit<\/li>\n
  • N\u00ebse f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi dhe e pranon se ndjehet keq<\/li>\n
  • T\u00eb vendoset n\u00eb pozicionin e nj\u00eb njeriu t\u00eb besuesh\u00ebm<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Pasi t\u00eb jet\u00eb krijuar besimi dhe t\u00eb vendoset nj\u00eb lidhje miq\u00ebsore apo edhe romantike, personi mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb t\u00eb trajtoj\u00eb pyetje m\u00eb intime.<\/p>\n

    Shembuj pyetjesh:<\/h3>\n
      \n
    • A t\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb flesh lakuriq?<\/li>\n
    • A ke puthur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb?<\/li>\n
    • A vesh sutjena ose tanga?<\/li>\n
    • A ke qime?<\/li>\n
    • A jan\u00eb duke t\u2019u rritur gjinjt\u00eb?<\/li>\n
    • A e ke matur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb penisin t\u00ebnd?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Kur f\u00ebmija do t\u00eb ndjehet i sigurt\u00eb dhe e ul vigjilenc\u00ebn e tij\/saj, personi mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb trajtoj\u00eb pyetje q\u00eb shkojn\u00eb m\u00eb larg:<\/h3>\n
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      • I k\u00ebrkon f\u00ebmij\u00ebs t\u2019i \u00e7oj\u00eb foto intime<\/li>\n
      • I d\u00ebrgon atij\/asaj foto t\u00eb organeve t\u00eb tij gjenitale<\/li>\n
      • I propozon nj\u00eb takim n\u00eb linj\u00eb (p\u00ebr shembull, nj\u00eb seanc\u00eb video)<\/li>\n
      • I propozon nj\u00eb takim t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        Kam arsye t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohem n\u00ebse:<\/h3>\n
          \n
        • F\u00ebmija im kalon gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb n\u00eb Internet dhe shmang aktivitetet e tjera.<\/li>\n
        • Ai\/ajo kalon m\u00eb pak koh\u00eb me shok\u00ebt\/shoqet e tij\/saj.<\/li>\n
        • Ai\/ajo flet shpesh me nj\u00eb person q\u00eb nuk e njoh.<\/li>\n
        • Ai\/ajo e nd\u00ebrron shpejt imazhin n\u00eb ekranin e tij\/saj kur jam pran\u00eb tij\/saj.<\/li>\n
        • Ai\/ajo merr n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet post\u00ebs letra, pako ose telefonata nga njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk i njoh.<\/li>\n
        • Ai\/ajo ka para q\u00eb nuk ia kam dh\u00ebn\u00eb un\u00eb ose rroba e objekte t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb nuk ia kam bler\u00eb un\u00eb.<\/li>\n
        • Ai\/ajo ka mungesa t\u00eb shumta n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb.<\/li>\n
        • Rezultatet e tij\/saj shkollore jan\u00eb n\u00eb r\u00ebnie.<\/li>\n
        • Ai\/ajo b\u00ebhet agresiv\u00b7e.<\/li>\n
        • Ai\/ajo mbyllet n\u00eb vetvete.<\/li>\n
        • Ai\/ajo tregon vet\u00ebbesim t\u00eb ul\u00ebt.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

          Un\u00eb mendoj se f\u00ebmija im \u00ebsht\u00eb viktim\u00eb e grooming.<\/em> \u00c7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj?<\/h3>\n
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          • Un\u00eb i flas f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tim p\u00ebr frik\u00ebn dhe shqet\u00ebsimet e mia.<\/li>\n
          • Un\u00eb i k\u00ebrkoj m\u00eb shum\u00eb informacione p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet q\u00eb ka.<\/li>\n
          • Un\u00eb e d\u00ebgjoj pa e gjykuar.<\/li>\n
          • I k\u00ebrkoj n\u00ebse mund t\u00eb konsultoj shk\u00ebmbimet me k\u00ebt\u00eb person.<\/li>\n
          • E di q\u00eb n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb fakteve, ligji mund t\u00eb mbroj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tim.<\/li>\n
          • Me p\u00eblqimin e tij, mbledh dhe ruaj prova (foto, ose shkrepje t\u00eb ekranit me pamjen e profilit t\u00eb individit dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tim dhe mesazhet e shk\u00ebmbyera).<\/li>\n
          • Mund t\u00eb kontaktoj me telefon stacionin m\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt t\u00eb policis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb raportuar rastin.<\/li>\n
          • Sipas k\u00ebshillave t\u00eb policis\u00eb,\n
              \n
            • Me prova shkoj n\u00eb komisariat me ose pa f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tim.<\/li>\n
            • B\u00ebj ankes\u00eb.<\/li>\n
            • Sinjalizoj dhe bllokoj llogarin\u00eb e personit.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

              P\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmuar t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtes f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tim:<\/h3>\n
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              • Un\u00eb e di q\u00eb ai\/ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb viktim\u00eb. Faj\u00ebsimi i tij\/saj nuk do t\u00eb zgjidh\u00eb situat\u00ebn dhe nuk do krijoj\u00eb besim te ai\/ajo p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb treguar dhe dh\u00ebn\u00eb sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb informacione.<\/li>\n
              • Jam i vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tim t\u00eb pranoj\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimin e nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje miq\u00ebsore apo romantike, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ai\/ajo e ka vler\u00ebsuar si t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb.<\/li>\n
              • Gjej koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i shpjeguar f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tim q\u00eb,\n
                  \n
                • Ajo q\u00eb personi po b\u00ebn \u00ebsht\u00eb ilegale dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye ne ankohemi n\u00eb polici;<\/li>\n
                • Ligji ekziston p\u00ebr ta mbrojtur at\u00eb.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n
                • I propozoj mb\u00ebshtetje psikologjike f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tim.<\/li>\n<\/ul>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                  \u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb grooming? Hyrja n\u00eb kontakt dhe k\u00ebrkimi i vendosjes s\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje me f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe adoleshent\u00b7\u00eb\u00b7e q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":0,"parent":1907,"menu_order":6,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-2796","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vivreaveclesecrans.actioninnocence.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2796","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vivreaveclesecrans.actioninnocence.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vivreaveclesecrans.actioninnocence.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vivreaveclesecrans.actioninnocence.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vivreaveclesecrans.actioninnocence.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2796"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/vivreaveclesecrans.actioninnocence.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2796\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4765,"href":"https:\/\/vivreaveclesecrans.actioninnocence.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2796\/revisions\/4765"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vivreaveclesecrans.actioninnocence.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1907"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vivreaveclesecrans.actioninnocence.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2796"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}